I think you should tell her, directly. Even if it’s hard, I think it’s the best thing you can do now <3.
Do you mean tell her about my ED or how the weight comments bother me? I told her the latter and it doesn’t seem to phase her, but I don’t think I could ever tell her about my ED. I’ve lied about it so much because so many people used to tell her, “She’s anorexic! You’re being fooled!” And I was in complete denial, and that was even what part of our conversation was about today -
“I wish all of those people who called you anorexic could see you now because you certainly don’t look like it anymore.” etc. etc. etc. :/